She Left You for Someone Else - Now Get Her Back!

In many cases, when a woman dumps a man, she's already got another guy picked out, so that by the time the first man gets over the shock of the breakup, she's already with her new boyfriend, and it seems too late to try to get her back. Don't let her new relationship discourage you - if you want her back, go ahead and win back your girlfriend! There are psychological techniques that you can utilize to get her back in a short period of time. Just because she's seeing another man doesn't mean you can't try to get her back.

Rebound relationships rarely last

A rebound relationship is one that starts very soon after a breakup - she gets together with another man in hopes of developing strong enough feelings for him to overpower her strong feelings for you. It's really a dangerous time for her emotionally because she can get confused and hurt - at this point, it's likely that the best thing that can happen to her is that you get her back. You must avoid her now, even though it hurts to do so. Interfering now will only exacerbate matters and could drive her from you. She must realize on her own that her proper place is with you - and you're going to help her realize it.

Keep your head about you and don't do anything dumb

Even though you're interested in her emotional stability now, don't forget that you're dealing with the hurt and anguish of breaking up yourself, and are likely to act without thinking. Here's a technique you can use - if you decide to do something, write down what you want to do, and then don't do anything until you've had a good night's sleep - and then read the plan again the next day. You'll be grateful you waited, because most likely the plan was foolish. Above all, don't pass judgment on her for hooking up with someone else so quickly - no matter how big a mistake it is, she won't be able to hear it from you. Leave her alone - that's a sign of respect anyway. And when she starts to realize her mistake, there won't be any question that she arrived at that conclusion herself because you weren't interfering with her. She's put herself in a lose-lose position by getting involved with someone else so quickly. Inevitably she'll be comparing him with you, and simply because she's got a long, positive history with you, he's always going to seem inadequate in these comparisons. She'll start thinking that leaving you was a mistake.

The inevitable

It's inevitable, because even though she's left you physically, she hasn't done so emotionally. So in her time together with her new man, she's comparing him with you, looking to find in him the qualities that brought her together with you. Every move he makes would make her think how fantastic you were and how you made her feel important and loved.

Leave her alone - let her contact you

She's having a hard time in her new relationship - she feels bad about breaking up with you, she's comparing her new guy with you and finding him lacking, and so she's confused. She's used to leaning on you when she's confused - but now you can't be there for her because that'll just help her work out her problems in the new relationship. If you want her back, you mustn't be there to help her strengthen a relationship with someone else! So until it's obvious she's ready to come home, stay away from her!

You can win back a girlfriend who leaves you and starts seeing someone else right away. It's a process that requires wisdom and, above all, patience. Using the pointers discussed here, make your plan and follow it carefully, just like the many men who've won their girlfriends back again. Be assured that to achieve your goal of winning her back requires patience and self-discipline, qualities that may be in short supply because of the emotional turmoil you're also going through as a result of the breakup. Make certain now that this is someone who's really worth the time and effort you're about to put into getting her back! Seeing her with the new man will help to motivate and inspire you. Look at it this way - this is just a short separation until you two get back together again.